Family Friday; Henry Edward Vaughan

Henry Edward Vaughan. (Since I'm doing this in the hope of finding 'cousins', I haven't any documents for Henry. I have used Trove and the New South Wales, BDM's.) Henry, Henry, Henry, what a merry dance your have lead me on! I thought I had you neatly packaged up, born, married, had children and died. But no! I know you are the eldest son of Henry and Charlotte, born in 1842, most likely in Sydney. Then I find you, in 1862 getting married to Mary Ann Brown. Seven children follow; 1863 Henry Neatby; 1865 James G; 1867 Alfred E; 1870 Charlotte Alice, died 1871; 1872 Lydia C; 1875 Walter Oliver; 1877 George Atherden. Finally your death in 1901. But it is what lies betw...