Women's History Month: Louisa Mary Ann Abberton
Born 8 December 1860 in Lochyersleigh, NSW.
Died 7 May 1903 in Centre St, Redfern, NSW.
Buried 8 May 1903 in Rookwood, NSW.
I can assume she met her husband, Thomas Abberton at Mummel, as he grew up in Mummel and that is where they married. Seven children followed, Fredrick, 1891, Sidney, 1892, Marianne, 1894, Matthew, 1896, Leslie, 1898, William, 1900 and Michael, 1903. Michael died several hours before Louisa. Letters in her school file have her asking for " with my next posting, may it be closer to a town as I have two children, am pregnant, with my third and am looking after my elderly mother." I don't know if she got her request as she seems to have stopped teaching. I had assumed that once a woman married, she ceased employment. Louisa didn't, for several years.
Louisa was 43 when she died in May 1903 from Phthisis, that she had had for a year. We know it today as Pulmonary Tuberculosis. I can't begin to imagine how hard it must have been for her, pregnant and so ill. Louisa was buried in an unmarked grave, and in 1990 I was able to place a plaque on it.
Louisa's legacy; 7 children, 12 grandchildren and 54 great-grand-children.
Louisa is the embodiment of resilience in the fact of adversity. She must have endured so much being pregnant, suffering TB at the same time, and looking after six young children. That is a beautiful photo of her.
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